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leti's avatar

friendships breakups hurt me more than actual relationships breakups, especially because i shared everything with them and we know everything there is to know about one another, but sometimes it’s not enough, if you don’t effort into it, it won’t last. and all that you have know is memories of someone you used to know everything about, but you don’t anymore

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jess's avatar

It is truly heartbreaking—I’ve experienced it myself with two of my close childhood friends. However, I eventually realized that the effort wasn’t reciprocated, and sometimes it’s better to move on than to stay in a relationship that no longer holds meaning.

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Sunset monologues's avatar

It's really the same feeling. If a friend says they love you, they should invest in you. Because as you grow up, life and lifestyle change. If you want someone in your life, you have to do something about it. I'm no longer friends with the person I used to consider my best friend, because life is about the balance of giving and receiving. True friends make time for you. Thank you for your kind thoughts Jess♥️

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jess's avatar

I completely agree with you. It’s absolutely mutual—if you don’t invest in something, nothing will grow, and that applies to every aspect of life.

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Sunset monologues's avatar

Definitely. It's like natural selection. People who don't deserve us are going out of our lives somehow. Some things don't grow, they just rot

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